SEXUAL HEALTH IS MENTAL HEALTH…everyday V-Day Shopping List
Peeps, you don’t have to be an erotic dancer to get into Valentine’s Day. Yes, it is a Hallmark holiday and people grumble about that, but I see it differently. It’s a good reminder to do something special for ourselves and our loved ones. Are you looking for the perfect Valentine’s Day gift? Whether it’s for that special someone or you want to show yourself some extra love, I got you covered! You can even send a link to your partner for a not so subtle hint…keep reading, in 29 seconds you will get to my Valentine's Day Shopping List from my expert guests. So Fun!
In midlife we can feel stuck in the comfort zone…even sexually. Same partner, same everything….what can we do to spice things up a bit? No, not Vegas. LOL!
Are you asking yourself why you aren’t in the mood? Why does my vagina burn after sex? Is it too loose in there? What can I do? Don’t just accept “it’s menopause” as the answer.
There are answers to these questions. This is your time to try something new and make pleasure a priority! Talking to your partner about things you want to mix up in the bedroom can make all the difference. Don’t be nervous because chances are they want to do the best they can to pleasure you. Peeps, it’s a two way street. You and your partner are not mind readers, we gotta talk or show them. No one can do it for us. Again, like all other midlife things, we gotta do our own work. And, guess what, all my vagina experts have said, it’s on you to do some of the pleasure work research and development on ourselves. It’s not a partner’s job!
Midlife is a key time to readdress, reevaluate and rethink our VJ’s, our libido and all things midlife sexual health.
In this week’s episode, Episode 38, MIDLIFE VJ’S…USE ‘EM OR LOSE ‘EM, Dr. Karyn Eilber MD explains that sexual health is mental health. During this new and exciting chapter of midlife there can be not so exciting changes…understanding your body and working with the changes can help make the midlife transition smoother. You are going to fckn’ love her. She is smart, sassy and funny!!!! Fun and informative chat… And by the end, you will be a lube expert too.
So this Valentine’s Day let’s spice things up!
THE FLEXIBLE NEUROTIC’S VALENTINE’S DAY PRODUCT ROUND UP
Across all my vagina and menopause episodes… Open your shopping carts…
Disclaimer: I'm not affiliated with any of these brands…just wanted to share some great products with you!
Here goes…
Vibrant V Moisturizing Silky-Serum
You know the VJ elephant skin down there that no one talks about? You can change it. I showed before and after on my stories. Just not mine. lol. It’s magic!
CBD & CBG HUILE D'AMOUR (Oil-Based) SPRAY LUBRICANT
Yes! CBD for your VJ. I have used this one too. And it has the fab Sex & The City Vibes. It’s refillable. Doesn’t look like lube in your makeup case. TSA embarassment at the airport…
Reigniting Midlife Intimate Energy
The Cervix Serpent
The glass, magical Cervix Serpent. Gorgeous and effective for pelvic tension and the g-zone. And it’s dishwasher safe. lol.
Vmagic Organic Vulva Cream
It’s just that! Calming magic to create pain-free sex. You know that “I’m going to die!” feeling when your VJ hurts during or after sex? This could help you…
The Healthy Pleasure Kit
How pretty is this little, discreet tool kit? “Tabu” …it’s the opposite of Costco size. It’s under the radar. Your teenagers might not even know what it is. Phew!